We have compiled a list of commonly asked questions (and their answers!) so that you can be well-equipped before you begin your counselling journey with us. If there is anything else you would like to know please get in touch and we will be only too happy to assist.
How do I know if I need counselling / psychotherapy?
Counselling sessions can help you to gain clarity on an issue, change old patterns, untangle complex personal issues, or embark on a journey of self-development. You may seek counselling because of a crisis, or you may be encouraged to seek counselling by family members, friends or colleagues.
What happens in a counselling session?
There is no typical counselling session. Your counsellor will be highly trained in listening and reflecting and provides a safe environment in which to explore your issues. With most types of counselling you are free to discuss what you wish, from everyday events, dilemmas, feelings, and thoughts, to regrets, aspirations, memories and dreams.
What issues can counselling help with?
Clients come to us with wide-ranging problems, including:
- anxiety (generalised anxiety problems, panic attacks, agoraphobia, social anxiety, claustrophobia)
- workplace issues (stress, work-life imbalances)
- relationship issues (breakups, divorce, affairs, choosing inappropriate partners, loneliness, life adjustments, marital problems, arguments, jealousy, wedding and premarital issues)
- depression (including suicidal thoughts, low mood, social withdrawal)
- low self-esteem and lack of confidence
- sexual problems (impotence, internet/pornography/sex addiction, loss of desire, infertility)
- trauma (including post-traumatic stress disorder from accidents, rape and other attacks/incidents)
- obsessive-compulsive disorder
- eating problems (including bulimia, binge eating, negative body image)
- phobias and fears
- addiction and substance misuse
- abuse (including physical, verbal, and sexual abuse)
What kinds of people seek counselling?
Counselling can assist everyone. We welcome you, regardless of your culture, religion, gender, sexual orientation, or employment group. Counselling is also not just for adult individuals, but is beneficial for couples, families, teenagers and children.
How do I start counselling?
To book an initial assessment you can use our online form, email us, or phone us.
If you prefer a specific counselling approach, we will match you up with a suitable counsellor. In the event we feel that your assessment therapist feels you would benefit from a different counselling approach, they will normally recommend another specialist for you to consider.
How do I know which counselling approach is most suited to me?
There are many kinds of established therapeutic approaches nowadays, including humanistic counselling (for instance, ‘person-centred’, existential), psychodynamic psychotherapy, cognitive analytic therapy (CAT), and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT).
Don’t worry if you are simply not sure what particular approach would be suited to you. Your first appointment will be an assessment where you can discuss your issues and the different types of therapy that might help. Many of the therapists are also what is known as ‘integrative’, meaning they are trained in several types of therapy and can draw on different ideas and approaches, to move you from where you are to where you want to be.
How do I know which counsellor is right for me?
You can learn about each counsellor and their approach by reading the individual profiles under ‘Counsellors’. You can also talk to our admin team who can provide you with further guidance!
For your therapy to be effective, it’s important you work with a counsellor you feel you can trust. At your first meeting both you and the counsellor will have an opportunity to honestly decide if you will benefit from working together. And if after several sessions you simply don’t feel the therapist is a good match, we are one of the only UK companies to offer you a free session with another counsellor of your choice.
What if I want to try more than one kind of therapy?
Many therapists nowadays are what is known as ‘integrative’, meaning they are trained in and combine a variety of psychotherapeutic approaches to best help their clients. If this is of interest, look at individual profiles under ‘Counsellors’ to find one that offers the several types of therapy you are interested in, or call us and we can advise you further.
How many counselling sessions will I need?
The number of sessions you will need will depend on your unique circumstances and needs. Six sessions are often recommended with a ‘review’ to agree a future plan.
Keep in mind that once you start sessions, new issues and angles can arise you were not aware existed that you then want to explore. It is of course possible to also see improvement faster than you expected.
Will my counselling sessions be confidential?
Yes, counselling sessions are confidential. The exception would be if you were to pose a danger to yourself or others, in which case the relevant parties would be notified.
What happens if I don’t think the counsellor is a good match for me?
If you do not feel the counsellor is a good match, we offer you a free session with one other therapist of your choice.
I only want one session, will the counsellor be able to help?
Generally your first session will be used as an assessment rather than for treatment. This allows you to identify your issues as you see them, and for your therapist to start to gain an idea of what your needs are. So unfortunately, having just one session is unlikely to have any lasting benefit for you.
Why do I need to attend weekly sessions?
The standard format of weekly sessions helps you make gradual progress to where you want to get to. In some cases, a counsellor will agree to two or more sessions per week if you both deem it beneficial and they have the availability.
Can I have more than one session a week?
It’s not advisable for a client to have more than one weekly session because it’s important to have processing time in between what comes up in each session.
Can I speak to a counsellor before my appointment?
Counsellors are in sessions with clients during the day and simply can’t make time to talk to every potential client. Your initial session appointment is the time to ask any questions you might have, find out about how your counsellor will work with you, and discover if you feel a connection.
Remember that while the majority of initial sessions proceed to counselling sessions you are under no obligation to continue.
Does my GP need to refer me for an appointment?
No. You are free to refer yourself to Simply Counselling.